pseudonymous vs anonymous

sometime its better to become an A then a THE because THE always followed by a definition. a lot of differences between a person than the person. the most important part is the definition. who you are is what defines you. but what defines who you are? it is what you do and how you operate your brain. the way you think always affect the way you act. even a father and his sons, brothers and twins dont always have the same way of thinking. i'm not sure about twins, but 2 other relationship are confirmed. some people like to be a THE person instead of an A person and vise versa. this actually related to your communication skills. the way you represent yourself, the way you talk to the others and also the way you talk to yourself. there are peoples who trying so hard to become a THE but instead he or she always in the A colony. THE person will sometimes want to be an A person and an A person will sometimes want to be a THE person. this is what we humans are. we always demands what we dont have and didnt appreciate what are in our pocket. i already have my own thought, u readers? you want to be an A person or a THE person?